Each section of the journey is a kind of insight
My mom is afraid I will marry the man who is not from the local place, so she wants me to work in my home town. When I studied in school, my parents said do part-time job will divert my attention to study, so in that condition, I just could study hard, and could not like other classmates went out to do what they like, during my spare time, I just could go to library to read some book, so stayed at dormitory to farm wow gold for my account, or buy wow gold from other site. So after I graduated from college, I found all my friends were more mature than me, and they were all full of working experience. So it was easy for them to get a job after graduation. So I started to blame my parents. And the fortunately I was graduated, so I could do what I like now I thought. But everything were out of my expecting, when I graduated from school, my parents wanted me to go home to work, they wanted to left me around them. When I heard this, I was so desperate.
But finally I still did not follow their step, I chose to stay in a different city to work, I knew my parents were so sad and beyond their hope, especially for my mother, although this, my mother often called me to ask my situation of working and life, and when she had time, she would came here to see me. In my deep heart, I wanted to say I can take care of myself because I am adult now, although I do not have enough working or social experience at this moment, but I can learn it step by step. I know what they did was just the love for us, but I still want to tell them every child need to grow up and fly always in one day finally, so just let it go, maybe it will be good for both of us.
I say this did not mean to hurt my parents that are just what I want to say for a long time, life is just like few section of the journey, and each section has different insight. So everyone need to accept this calmly, included the parents and ourselves.